Gents. A lady in Australia was added to my list some time ago. She has kept reading my emails despite the fact that she felt some of them were somewhat negative to women.
About a week ago she wrote to me asking me some questions. She was wondering why I seemed to put "all women in the same basket". She very politely and very carefully put the question not as a fait accompli but as a sincere question.
I was so surprised by her respectful email because I get so few of them from western women I chose to share some information with her about "Sue" linked below. Nothing that I have not said in public at some time or another. I just wanted to re-iterate to this woman that, indeed, "Sue" had been very supportive to me four years ago and that I absolutely respected her and care about her and she me.
I pointed out that I respect and care for women who show me the respect I am due and accept that I am an honest man of honour and integrity who is doing my best to re-introduce the rule of law in my homeland and land of ancestry where I criminally abused.
After this email conversation I suggested that if she really wanted to help me then make a statement as to her opinion of me based on actually bothering to get to know me. This is that statement.
If this lady wants to reveal her calling that is up to her. I promised the statement would be anonymous.
As far as I am aware this lady is 100% legitimate and I have no reason to doubt what she has said. I do not believe her to be an agent spoofing me.
-----Original Message-----
From: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: 06 July 2012 07:45
To: peter@peternolan.com
Subject: RE: What can people on this list do to assist us re-introduce the rule of law?
Hi Peter,
Thank you for your reply
To all you western women out there who are hating on Peter, I would like to put across my own opinion about this man. I don't know Peter personally but from what I have read on his site I find him to be true to himself. Peter is not stating anything that know one already knows about. The only difference is, Peter has the nerve to say it and as far as I am concerned good on him.
Women who see Peter as a threat need to take a good look at themselves and ask themselves this question. Why am I disagreeing with Peter? Is it because he is stating the truth about some of you women out there? The truth always stirs up anger because if it were not true then why would so many women be so defensive over one man who is only informing the younger generation on their rights.
Women are suppose to be the nurturing partner when it comes to family but I am sad to say that, that is not always the case. More and more fathers are now stepping up to their responsibilities and are doing a much better job then most women out there. Some women as far as I am concerned and this is my own observation (do not deserve to have children). I am a mother myself with 8 children. When I decided to take on that roll I took it on with full force. I dedicated my life to my children full time and am reaping the rewards now. Mothers who think that they can have children and a career at the same time have lost the real meaning of what it is to be a nurturing mother. I know I am going to get a lot of flack for saying this, but, like Peter I too have an voice and am not afraid to say it.
As time has gone past I find more and more fathers better suited to this roll more so then most mothers out there. And it saddens me that instead of these mothers looking out for the best interest of their children they are allowing their hate and grudges to dictate to them on the best possible solution for their children. They also use the court system to back them up when we all know that the court system is flawed in so many ways. Once upon time you went to court for justice. Now you go to court to get a result. Go figure.
My daughter went through court with her daughter (our grand daughter) My advice to her was this----what is the best thing here for------------.Put aside your's and your ex partners needs and rights as parents and think about what would make baby happy in the long run. My daughter had no job, no where to live. She could not support this little angel of ours. On the other hand the father was in a stable relationship, had a good job and could support our little angle. From my observation he was a good dad who loves this little child as much as we do. We knew she would be safe with him. This was not an easy decision for my daughter to make but in the end she graceful handed her child over to the father full time. This is not to say that my daughter didn't love her as much as the father, it was because she loved her enough to do the right thing by her daughter. Her feelings about the father and how much she hated him had to be put aside.
Now as far as I am concerned, it takes a loving mother to do whats right for their children out of love. And she did what was best for her daughter not what was best for her. Most people will have their own opinion on this matter as we have found out, but at the end of the day more parents need to stop fighting for their rights over their children and start fighting for the rights of their children and what is best for them. Too many children have been ruined because adults are selfish and all about their needs and their rights as parens instead of looking at these little people and asking themselves-----what is this doing to them and how can we come together and make it right for our children-----Yes our children, not my needs or rights as a parent but our childrens needs.
And as for Peter and what he is doing, I take my hat off to him and wish him all the blessings in this wonderful world. Peter is a brave man who is the voice for our younger generations. An as far as I'm concern you mothers out there who are hating on Peter, you should be thanking him and supporting him. He is doing a great job of informing your sons of their rights. YES, your son's. I am sure you all have son's too.
Peter does not need to do this but he chooses to do it for the love of these young men and the love that he has for children because of his own experience. And for that I say thank you Peter for all of your hard work and your determination to get this problem out there to the world. Yes, I agree that this is a problem because too many children are being hurt and scared because parents are toooooo busy fighting for their rights and their needs. When did this become all about your rights and your needs as parents???? What about the children????
Remember---knowledge is power
Thank you Peter,
Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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