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 1/19/2012 2:12 AM
 Modified By host  on 1/18/2012 9:20:23 AM
John Rambo came across a site called Raising Real Men.

There was an article about the shipwreck. I will put the text below.

John and I both commented. My comment was immediately removed, twice, and Johns was later removed.

So the answer from this boy and man hater is obvious. He is going to betray his sons and betray all the boys he talks to as the true nature of women and what happens in the family courts.

I really DESPISE men like this. Men who will KNOWINGLY LIE and who will KNOWINGLY SUPPRESS THE TRUTH so that they can produce the next generation of drone robots who think "women and children first" is how it should be who will be led to the slaughter of the divorce courts.

Men like this MUST BE EXPOSED as the liars and hypocrites they are. We must do ALL WE CAN to destroy their businesses, indeed their lives, as they are the agents of destruction of so many other mens lives. Let them have a taste of what it is they are promoting with their MAN-HATRED, their LIES and their deceptions.
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 1/19/2012 2:13 AM

Thoughts On A Shipwreck

by Hal | January 16th, 2012

There are few disasters as riveting as a shipwreck. Thankfully they are very, very rare these days. This weekend was one of the exceptions, as the cruise ship Costa Concordia struck a reef off the coast of Italy and sank in shallow water near Isla di Giglio.

It’s too soon to know the full story of why the ship was off course and steering into the narrow channel. There are probably explanations of why the crew members initially told passengers to sit tight, it was just an electrical problem. Truth, rumor and conjecture get hopelessly mixed in an emergency, and compared to other events like an airplane crash or a building fire, a shipwreck happens in slow motion. Maybe there was an electrical problem which interfered with navigation and steering, and at the moment, some crew members had no better information themselves. Hopefully the truth will come out soon.

What is immediately disturbing though is reports that the captain left the vessel almost immediately after the collision, and that men among the passengers did not give place to “women and children first” as the call went out. What was expected as the duty of a gentleman in 1912 – as husbands and fathers, let alone unaccompanied men, gave up their places on the lifeboats of the Titanic – seems to be slipping away as the constant drumbeat of women-and-men-are-no-different erodes the biblical norms in our culture.

This “every man for himself” behavior happens when men are not taught from early years that their first responsibility in a disaster is not to preserve themselves, but to make sure that they use their strength and leadership to save others first. The greater the honor and position, the greater the responsibility — Jesus said,

For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more “ (Luke 12:48), and

Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends, (John 15:13).

That’s what makes the captain’s action the most shameful. No one expects him to go down with his ship (and in the shallows, he’d have to dive overboard to make the gesture). We do expect that the commander makes sure his passengers and crew are accounted for before saving his sorry hide himself.

How should a young man look at an emergency?

1. First, a man needs to stay calm. When people lose their composure, they act foolishly and do things like run past escape routes, ignore empty lifeboats, and trample other people.  When men panic, it can frighten other people into losing their cool, too. Rudyard Kipling wrote about steadfastness in the face of catastrophe and he started his manifesto for manhood with the words,

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too; …

It’s that important.

2. Figure out where you can help.  A young man by himself needs to look for someone who needs assistance. It might be an older adult or a family with children or a young person without a guardian. It may be someone injured or in need of comfort. Occasionally it might be help with the crew, holding a door or helping carry a piece of equipment or rescue supplies.

A young man with companions needs to look out for their needs.  Are you able to assist your mother, sisters, younger brothers, grandparents? Then do so as your primary responsibility. 

But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. (1 Timothy 5:8)

3. Women and children first.  The reports from the Costa said part of the problem was men unwilling to be separated from their families. This is totally understandable and indeed, honorable, if there’s clearly room for all. In this case, the list of the ship made it impossible to launch many of the lifeboats and rafts.  The blessing was that the ship was plainly just a few hundred yards from the shore, and even a non-swimmer in a life vest should have been able to paddle his way to safety in the calm conditions. (Remembering Rule 1, stay calm.)

How to manage this? I think the key was probably to recognize separation was almost certainly just temporary. If the men had agreed with their wives on how they would make contact on shore, they could have escaped by separate ways with less anxiety. In this case, agree to stay with the group as much as possible, or if separated there too,  leave word with the police on shore when you make land. In other circumstances, you might agree to meet at the car, or the restaurant across the street, or at the mailbox at the corner – any landmark in the area, a little ways from the emergency. Beside the anxiety over possible loss of life, the simple worry of being lost and alone is frightening.  Having a plan, even one improvised at the moment, is a great comfort.

Emergencies do happen, and we’ve found a young man with a clear head can be a rock to those around him. It can mean the difference between life and death sometimes, without rushing into the teeth of danger but just by finding the safest way out of it.  This disaster, with its great drama but limited tragedy, is a terrific opportunity to talk about how to handle the ultimate stress as a real man should.


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 1/19/2012 2:14 AM
My comment, twice removed, was as follows.

as a christian man whos wife renounced her christianity right after our second baby was christened? I stayed on for 14 more years doing my best to have my wife come back into the fold and care for what I beleived were my children. 

In divorce I was HATED on by christian men and women alike. I chose to renounce the evil and wicked christian religion because it is full of evil and wicked people who think it is just fine for a fallen woman to commit the crimes of perjury, kidnapping, extortion, theft and child abuse. 

If you to not teach your boys that women are fundamentally greedy selfish people who will manipulate them and abuse them in the nicest possible way so as to not arouse their suspicions you are betraying your boys. 

If you do not teach your boys that "5% is the new 50%" in the family courts as was my case? You are betraying your boys.

You are welcome to come here and read about my case. I have published FULL details so that boys and young men can have the PROOF of what happens in the family courts. Not the LIES about what happens in the family courts.

I would ask you to join us in telling boys THE TRUTH and no LYING to them.

Remember. NOT ONE CHRISTIAN WOMAN denounced my FALLEN EX as the criminal and child abuser she was. That means those CHRISTIAN WOMEN are EQUALLY GUILTY. And not only that? They disobeyed a direct instruction from JESUS HIMSELF where it is claimed Jesus said that all effort must be made to bring the lost sheep back to the fold.

So. The question for your conscience is this. Are you going to tell your boys the truth? Are you going to join us to spread the TRUTH?

Or are you going to keep up with the current lies you are telling, probably out of ignorance, and set you boys us for the same failure my parents set me up for by not telling me the true nature of women?

As you think about that? Please remember that in Australia an estimated 4,000 men kill themselves a years from the criminal abuse of the family courts. Every single one of those men was a boy once. And every single one of them was lied to about women by people they trusted. Every single one of them was lied to about how they would be respected as a father and that no one could ever take their babies from from.

What is it Hal? The truth? Or lies that might end in suicide. 

Think carefully. The lives of you boys will likely depend on it. Are you going to betray them as my father betrayed me?
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 1/19/2012 2:16 AM
This is how hateful this man is..he claims to have SIX boys and he is going to hide the TRUTH from them in order to sell books. 

At least that is how it looks to me.

Lets see how he responds to this little prompting, eh?

About Us

Fresh from a state tax audit to prove that yes, they’re all ours, Hal and Melanie Young, authors of the Christian Small Publishers Association 2011 Book of the Year, Raising Real Men, are parents of six real boys and two real girls. They have homeschooled through eight high-risk pregnancies, three re-locations, two decades, and 181 degrees of longitude. Hal and Melanie have served on the Board of Directors of North Carolinians for Home Education for over 14 years, including three terms as President for Hal. They have published articles with The Foundation for Economic Education, Homeschooling Today, the John Locke Foundation, Homeschool Digest, TEACH Magazine, Homeschool Enrichment, the N.C. Family Policy Council, the Heartland Institute and more. Hal and Melanie have made more than 50 media appearances in venues as wide ranging as The Jesse Lee Peterson Show and the Bob Dutko Show to Mancow’s Morning Madhouse and CBS Evening News with Dan Rather. They are sought after conference speakers who routinely draw standing room only crowds with their mix of uniquely entertaining cross-banter and practical, powerful Scriptural principles. Their dramatized audiobooks, such as Hero Tales from American History by Theodore Roosevelt and Henry Cabot Lodge, are gaining a following across the country, as well.  Hal & Melanie have glorified the Lord through some extreme challenges recently, though, with Hal successfully fighting stage IV cancer and their youngest dealing with a life-threatening heart condition. Despite it all, the Youngs live in noisy familial bliss in North Carolina.

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 1/19/2012 2:33 AM
Hal Young's Facebook page:
Hal's LinkedIn page:

It says that he is from Raleigh, NC, USA. It says he is the owner of Smith and Young Purveyors:

The EMAIL address for Hal's business is:

I assume John Young is Hal's son:

Hal's wife Melanie:

Here is the Facebook page of that man-hating website:

Browsing through it for a minute, I noticed that Hal recently was suspected of getting cancer. This is called karma. Too bad he survived. The sooner that people like this are dead and gone, the better off the world will be.

Here is another website that Hal and his wife run:

You can contact them here:

I sent the following message to them:

You both are disgusting. You are so full of hatred for men that you are promoting the idea that men should stay behind on a sinking ship and die, simply because of their gender.

WHY are you both so full of hatred for men?

You are also a disgrace to the Bible and Christian religion, as the Bible does NOT teach this kind of man-hatred. Rather, it teaches that women should be SUBMISSIVE and LOYAL to men, not going around spewing man-hatred and violence against men.

We will be sending information about your contact info and business ventures, so that other men can also contact you and spread the word about your misandry, hatred of men.


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 1/19/2012 2:39 AM
 Modified By Host2  on 1/18/2012 9:39:35 AM
Here's the email I just sent to them (
To Hal and his wife Melanie,

I read your article about the ship disaster.

Why are you promoting hatred and violence towards men and young boys? Why should men and boys have to die simply because of their gender? Why are you both so sexist and hateful towards the male gender?

Are you aware that 58 percent of child abuse/molestation in America is committed by WOMEN, whereas only 42 percent of child abuse/molestation is committed by MEN?

If you are truly serious about "protecting men" and "raising men", then it would behoove you to address this issue, that the MAJORITY of child abuse/molestation is done by WOMEN.

I will wait for you to write an article on this subject for your blog. If you refuse to address this issue, then you have clearly exposed your man-hatred, sexism, and hypocrisy for all to see.

John Rambo
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 1/19/2012 10:06 PM
Great Work John Rambo. Thank You.

Give me 9 more men like you and we will turn this tide very, very quickly.
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